If I were a boy, even just for the day..
I’d roll out of bed in the morning and throw on what I wanted and go. I’d drink beer with the guys and chase after girls. I’d kick it with who I wanted and I’d never get confronted for it because they stick up for me.
If I were a boy, I think I could understand how it feels to love a girl, I swear I’d be a better man. I’d listen to her, because I know how it hurts when you lose the one you wanted because he’s taking you for granted and everything you had got destroyed.
If I were a boy, I would turn off my phone. I would tell everyone its broken so they would think I was sleeping alone. I’d put myself first and make the rules as I go because I know that she’d be faithful waiting for me to come home…..
It’s a little too late for you to come back, and say it’s just a mistake. You think I’d forgive you like that? If you thought I would wait for you, you thought wrong.
But, you’re just a boy. You don’t understand how it feels to love a girl someday you’ll wish you were a better man. You don’t listen to her and you don’t care how it hurts. Until you lose the one you wanted because you’re taking her for granted and everything you had got destroyed. But.. You’re just a boy.
As preformed by the talented, Beyonce.
Working in a restaurant I see my fair share of men, woman, and couples. There are the standard young cutsie couples that are just way too cute, the devastatingly adorable older couples that you just want to take home, and among the rowdy, rude, and hideous people we find what I dub the “douche bag”. I am not a business person but it is my strong belief that cell phones should not be used inside of a restaurant, at dinner, or during any other intimate moment. Many women can be just as bad if not worse at this 
then men which is very frustrating. So come on guys and gals lets learn to appreciate the moment again.
Now, hoping down from my soap box, this brings me to my point. The art of appreciation. How many times have you been with a couple and you just can not stop thinking, “What does she see in him??” The truth as you know is that that is an amazing woman and this man is being a flat out tool. I have never understood it but men have this magical thought process. Many of them will, whether they are willing to admit it or not, go out of their way to get a woman. In the beginning they recognize how fantastic she is, especially in comparison to him, or they would never put forth the effort. As time passes men tend to develop this thought that all of those smoking foxy ladies they spot at the grocery store or bar or wherever they go, that these women would be remotely interested in them had they not had a girlfriend or wife. It is a pretty much proven fact: Men do not appreciate the women that they are lucky enough to rope in.
Women, generally speaking, will go out of their way to stand up for, take care of, exhaust themselves for their men. People can debate for hours on the role of a woman in the house hold, but all that I’m saying is men: Take a good look around, you have the ability to take care of yourself, maybe. How much has a woman done for you today? Mom, Sister, Wife, Girlfriend, Aunt, Grandma, or Friend. Lets look at the big picture.. This is a woman’s world and quite frankly you are lucky that we’re allowing you to wonder around in it and on top of that let our hard work, meals, tolerance, and forgiveness go unappreciated. Trust me, we don’t do it because we have nothing better to do. Most of us somehow learned to love you somewhere along the way. So like, buy us flowers or something and pass that damn remote every once in a while you bum. 
That is all
Sar.
